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 Divorce
Surviving The Divorce Maze
The initial Divorce Maze seminar was presented in June of 1994. The Divorce Maze has been held monthly (barring adverse weather) for the past six years; the sponsors are the 17th Judicial District, the Cities of Westminster and Thornton, and Adams Community Mental Health.

Seminar Participants

Kent Schroeder, Magistrate, 17th Judicial District
Barbara Corneau, Esquire, Attorney-at-law
Frances J. Coet, Certified Public Accountant, Certified Valuation Analyst
Elaine O'Reilly, Psychotherapist and Mediator

Seminar Format/Content

Magistrate Schroeder discusses for twenty minutes the Court's perspective:

  • Service
  • Pro Se Representation
  • Temporary Orders
  • Timeframes for filing
  • Permanent Orders
    • Child Support
      • Guidelines
    • Parental Rights and Responsibilities
      • Likely scenarios for parenting times
    • Maintenance
    • Property Division
      • Qualified Domestic Relations Orders
      • Houses/Homes
      • Motor Vehicles
      • Personal Property
      • Pets
    • Miscellaneous
      • Name Change
      • Format for Hearings

Ms. Corneau discusses for fifteen to twenty minutes:

  • Role of attorney
  • Special advocates
  • Planning for the process
    • Affidavit with Respect to Financial Affairs
    • Child Support Worksheets A & B
  • Issues to be addressed
    • Child Support
    • Parental Rights & Responsibilities
    • Maintenance
    • Property Division
  • Utilizing Alternatives to Litigation

Ms. Coet discusses for fifteen to twenty minutes:

  • Financial Aspects
    • Budgeting for cash flow
    • Preparation of the F/A
  • Reconstruction of Income
    • Self-employed Individuals
    • Pertinent for Child Support Worksheets
  • Special Property Issues
    • Pensions/Related Valuation Issues
    • Business Interests
    • Hidden Assets
    • Tax-Effected Assets
  • Income Tax Issues
    • Marital Status
    • Dependency Exemptions
      • Child Credit
      • Tuition Credits
    • Maintenance (Alimony v. Child Support)
    • Property Divisions
      • QDROs
      • Personal Residences
    • Deductibility of Dissolution Costs

Ms. O'Reilly discusses for fifteen to twenty minutes:

  • The Grieving Process
    • Denial
    • Bargaining
    • Anger/Sadness
    • Resolution
  • Impact on Children
    • Their Own Grieving Process
    • Recommend Reading Materials
    • Delayed Exchange
    • Child Custody Evaluations
    • Role of Special Advocate
  • Options to Litigated Dissolution
    • Pro Se
      • The Guidebook for Friendly Divorce in Colorado
  • Arbitration
    • Binding
    • Non-Binding
  • Mediation
    • Informed Decision Making
    • Using Legal Counsel
  • Other considerations
    • Therapy
    • Grief Counseling

Final Half-hour

All Q & A from the participants to any of the presenters.

This program has been temporarily discontinued. Please contact us for a private consultation. 


10875 Dover Street, Suite 400, Westminster, Colorado 80021
Ph: 303-426-6444  
Fax: 303-426-0712  info@coetandcoet.com  
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